Just because a woman is good looking, doesn't mean she's good for YOU!

An Open Letter To Every Man
Who Wants To Have More Sex
And Less Drama In His Relationships

"Learn the covert secrets of screening out drama queens,
psychos, and low self-esteem losers!"

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From: David Shade
Just outside of Detroit MI
Monday June 1, 2009

Dear Friend,

Did you know having sex an average of four times a week can make you look 7 to 12 years younger? Or that having sex three times a week cuts your risk in half for heart attack and strokes.

It's true!

According to a study at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital in Scotland, men who reported having sex an average of four times per week looked approximately 10 years younger than they really were.

And a study at Queen's University in Belfast in 1997 showed men who reported the highest frequency of orgasm enjoyed a death rate half that of men who only occasionally had sex.

Kind of makes you stop and think doesn't it?

Listen, if your "animal intuition" is working at all you already know, deep down, that...

a fabulous sex life is the foundation
of a deeply satisfying existence!

But... what you most likely don't know is... how much having a good relationship affects the quality of sex and your life.

For instance, research has shown that marriage prolongs life for men (and women) by 10 years on average, and married people have sex more often and enjoy it more than single people. (Univ. of Chicago Population Research Assoc. 1995)

Now, I'm not here to tell you to get married. It doesn't matter what kind of relationship you want. A date for the weekend, a girlfriend, to date multiple women, or get married. It's not for me to judge that.

But if you would like to know how to have more (and better sex), more happiness, better health... then this will be the most important message you'll ever read!

Here's why: The 3 most important factors in a man's life are Health, Wealth, and Relationships. But what most men don't realize is the impact a relationship has on his health and his wealth. And, the relationship you have with your woman will determine if you are one of those guys having sex 3-4 times a week, looking young, and living longer...

Or one of those guys who's life is filled with drama, misery, and has to beg and plead to have sex with his woman.

Now, everyone (at least, everyone who is mentally healthy) wants... and deserves... to have great relationships and a super exciting sex life!

Napoleon Hill said in his famous book "Think & Grow Rich" the most important decision you will ever make is selecting a wife.

The problem is... how to do it.

And it's a much bigger problem than you think. I know, because I found out the hard way!

In 1992, I was married to a drop-dead gorgeous woman. She would turn heads everywhere we went. We had good sex, great kids, and a nice house in the suburbs. For me, life was perfect.

And then it came crashing down around me. One day out of the blue she left me for a bad-boy. I was devastated. The pain was worse than getting kicked in the nuts with steel toed boots.

And to make matters worse, the divorce cost me over $100,000, and much more in the years following. It was like pouring salt in an already gaping wound.

I was blindsided and my life was in ruins. The only thought I had was "what had I done wrong?"

It was this question that became the burning focus of my life. Seeking the answer kept me going and helped me to come out of this dark time in my life.

I read relationship books while watching Monday Night football, I bought every video I could on how to have a good relationship. But, I wasn't finding any useful answers.

As I started getting back into the dating scene, I had a friend I would go out with. He was a natural and always had success with women. One night over a beer he said something that rocked my world!

He told me he once read that a woman who has a good relationship with her father, would always be great in bed and fun to be, and he had found this to be true over and over again.

I went home stunned...

And excited!

Could this be the secret?

Turns out he was onto something. I began to see this same pattern in all of the women I dated.

Is she a psycho?
"If you saw this in the bank line, do you know her one glaring indication of extremely low self-esteem?"

And I used all my spare time over the next 5 years to refine techniques based on what I learned. After doing all this research, I know things about women, relationships and sex I'd never dreamed about.

Here are some of my amazing discoveries:

First: It may seem obvious, but I've learned that 99% of men think because a woman is good looking she's good in bed. And men assume that all women are kind & gentle.

Second: I've discovered the covert skills and conversational methods for finding out quickly if a woman will be fun, exciting, and highly sexual or a psycho drama-queen who only has sex to keep a man around.

Third: I've learned most of the available advice on this topic is the same old re-hashed baloney you get from magazines like Maxim, and worse, some advice is... actually harmful!

Finally: I discovered when I taught my methods to a handful of men, in order to help them, I got rave reviews from them. And the men who learn and apply these techniques to their own lives get... another... big and unexpected advantage namely...


A New Feeling of Confidence, Peacefulness
and Sheer Joy Seems to Come Flooding in to
Every Other Area of Their Lives!

In other words, using my secrets for selecting a worthy woman... and having a fun and rewarding relationship with lots of exciting sex... also... acts as a foundation for supercharging every other part of your life. It's as if increasing the quality of your relationship and your sex life... is a springboard... that can send you skyrocketing to other areas of pleasure and satisfaction you could never get to before.

Here's the thing... as I explained earlier, most men are under the illusion that they already "know enough" about women to get by.

It's just not true. All you have to do is look at the divorce rate in America for proof. According to Mediate.com, 50% of all first marriages end in divorce. 67% of all second marriages end in divorce. That is a lot of failed relationships!

There are a ton of people who try to analyze why people get divorced. But at that point it's too damn late. A successful relationship begins by choosing wisely. And that means more than just a pretty face and nice figure.

You see, as human beings it is our animal nature to naturally be very highly sexed. In fact, we're almost 12 times more sexual than the nearest mammal. Think about it: Chimpanzees, for example only go into 'heat' once a month. But, as humans, we are capable of enjoying a loving sexual relationship 24 hours a day. No matter what we have been taught, all of us know... in our heart of hearts...

It Is Our Birthright to Have
Good Healthy Sex in a
Good Healthy Relationship!

Is she a psycho?
"Yeah, but is she a cheating psycho drama queen who will withhold sex to manipulate and then rip your heart out? Women test you, why shouldn't you test them? It's easy once you discover how."

You also know, if your relationship is miserable and your sex life sucks, everything in your life can suffer horribly.

Fortunately, this is the new millennium and finally... we men don't have to apologize anymore for wanting better sex. But, what most men desperately need is information and advice we can trust to guide us through all the nonsense out there.

And most men still use the same criteria cavemen used to select women (you know, using the little head to do all the deciding). The only test most guys use is "Hot or Not?"

You need a way to test a woman. After all, women test men constantly... shouldn't YOU be testing women too?

Listen, I'm not talking about pickup here. And this isn't about attraction. I'm talking about covert foolproof methods to carefully screen for high quality women BEFORE you get knee deep in a relationship (Even before you even go on the first date).

I don't care if you are building a harem or looking for your soulmate... you need to be able to do this or you will end up in a train wreck of a relationship and wonder what the hell went wrong.

Never forget this...

Choosing Wrong Guarantees Failure!


Success Begins by Selecting Wisely!


And the good news is... it's actually easy once you know how.

There are 3 simple steps to selecting wisely:

STEP #1: Learn what to look for in a woman that tells you she's worth spending time with, or if you should run for the door.

STEP #2: Discover how to find out what you need to know, without her feeling like you are interrogating her.

STEP #3: Do this with EVERY woman you think you might want to date. No exceptions!

Which one is sexual?
"They are both sexy, but only one is 'sexual'. I'll show you how to know covertly and reliably in simple conversation."

And with the methods I've developed, you'll find women enjoy it.

They won't know what you are doing either... but they will know there is something uniquely different about you, because you are not trying to 'get in her pants' just because she's hot.

Instead, you will get her to talk about things most men never think to talk about. You'll notice things about her that no guy ever notices, and you'll get her to open up about things she normally only tells her best friends.

What makes my methods even more powerful is, if you do decide to date her, you will already have a deep level of rapport and knowledge about her most guys never learn even after months of dating and sex.

All within the first few minutes of meeting her.

My system makes it easy and methodical to select intelligent, mentally healthy, highly sexual women... every time.

Is that cool or what?

And it's okay if you are having trouble believing me. I remember when my friend told me about the father thing. I had my doubts too until I was able to back it up with research.

Check out this letter from Matt. He used my methods to choose wisely...

Hey David,

I currently have a girlfriend who is enjoying the fruits of your material. Your material is GOLD mate.

I have been able to help her have a shattering orgasm fully clothed in a crowded room full of people with a 10 count orgasm. She has been able to experience incredible long lasting vaginal orgasms which she never experienced before and lots more.

She has been able to come with just some caressing of her neck, as well she has really started to appreciate her own body and the power of her sexuality.

It has been a joy to watch her try to discover the limits of unlimited pleasure.

Your criteria of an intelligent, attractive, daddy’s girl is right on the money!

She wasn’t that confident sexually before hand, but she sure as hell is now.

Great stuff mate and I just love your material!

Matt Herman


And here is just one of THOUSANDS of letters I get from men who didn't bother to find out up front if the woman would be good for them. It's sad, but fact is guys like this are the majority. At least this man realized his mistake early on and got out of the relationship.




I just wanted to say that I have had great success using and heeding the wisdom in your books.

Even when I didn't listen to your advice, as far as finding the right woman, it helped even with the wrong woman.

I fell head over heels for a woman that had had sexual trauma in her youth and unfortunately I didn't know this until we were in full stride. The techniques that I had learned from your books and had used with success with another woman, were rendered all but useless with this woman.

She was only orgasmic with clitoral stimulation, and when I tried the deep spot technique she at first said she was going to pee. I tried to keep our session moving by saying that this was ok to just relax and not to worry, to just go with the feeling but she was so repressed and worried that she could not and would not let me proceed.

I had to revert to her clitoris, but I have to say your technique of "jerking off" her clitoris was far more interesting and stimulating to her (and me) than her usual technique that she had wanted me to perform, which made me wonder why I was there at all.

To end, one comment: As hard as it is, it is so important to hold off and find the right woman (as you have advised David) otherwise it seems to me that you are just wasting your time and asking for frustration.

Andrew Peters




So, let's take a look at what's in this program:


Disc 1: Introduction to Selecting Women Wisely (mp4 video)

"Everything you need to fulfill a women is already within her,
but a woman can only be as fulfilled as she feels she DESERVES to be!"


Know this... There is no 'nice' way to put it... there are some women who are NEVER going to make for a healthy happy relationship!

In this part of the program you'll discover why some women are high maintenance or drama queens or just plain bat-shit crazy and will sabotage any kind of happiness that comes into her life. And you'll learn what the warning flags are so you'll easily be able to spot them.

Plus, how to know if a woman will bring you joy. One who will make you happy and who loves sex as much (or even more) than you.

Here's a sample of what you'll discover:


Disc 2: What Do YOU Want In A Woman? (mp3 audio)

"Most men have no freaking clue
what they want in a woman"


When I do coaching with a man, the first thing I ask is "What do you want?" And usually I get a long silence followed by the immortal words of Jeff Spicoli in Fast Times at Ridgemont High... "I don't know"

But if I ask what you don't want, they have an almost endless list.

Now, here's a secret all successful people live by... You get what you focus on! It may sound a bit woo-woo, but it's been proven over and over again. Your subconscious mind will do it's best to help you get what it thinks you want. And what you think about is what it thinks you want.

The Big Lesson: Focus on what you actually want in a woman, not all the things you don't want.

On this disc, I lead a group of men through the process to help them figure out just what they want in a woman.

Here's what you'll discover:


Disc 3: How To Select A High Quality Highly Sexual Woman (mp3 audio)

"Success begins by selecting wisely.
If you pick the right one... everything is going to work.
If you pick the wrong one... the pain is hard to describe"

First you'll discover the consequences of making a wrong choice and just how devastating it can be to make this mistake... both financially and emotionally. It's important to understand how important it is to select wisely because you have to get the relationship right in order for the sex to be right!

Listen, if you end up with a low self esteem woman, you'll be forever frustrated, your energy drained, and then she'll leave you for some scum who treats her like dirt.

You'll find out what some of the highly desirable qualities are you'll want to look for in a woman, plus a look at what high quality women desire in men.

And you'll discover what to look for that tells you a woman has a good self image, is emotionally healthy, highly sexual and very interesting to be with. A woman with whom you can experience hot passionate love.

Here's some of what you'll discover:


Manual: Select Women Wisely (spiral binder)

"Women test men all the time...
shouldn't you do the same?"


For those who like to read and really dig into the details, this is the deepest part of the program.

And when you go through it I'll bet at some point you'll slap yourself on the forehead and say "OMG... that's why that relationship fell apart!"

My purpose here is to make it crystal clear why some women are never going to be happy in a relationship.

It's not nice. It's not fair, and it's damn sure not politically correct. But my purpose is the success of my clients, and as I've said "success begins with choosing wisely!"

Here's some of what you'll discover:

Plus six Success Check-Lists for you to use to help you determine what you want in a woman and in a relationship.


Select Women Wisely - Audio Book 1 & 2 (2 mp3 audios)

The complete course manual done as an audio book for those who like to learn on the go. I get many requests from men who like to listen during the commute to work or while working out at the gym. The complete content of the printed manual is on these two mp3 audios so you can take it with you.


BONUS #1: Quick Start Guide

Your road map to getting started quickly based on how you learn best and how to get the most from the Select Women Wisely Program.


BONUS #2: How To Use Handwriting Analysis To Choose Your Lover Wisely (mp4 video)

"With handwriting analysis, in less than 10 minutes you can know more about a woman than even her best friends know"


Discover how simply by looking at a sample of a woman's handwriting, you can find out all about a woman's personality, intelligence, and ever her sex drives. Plus you can find all the essential qualities I teach in this program.

This video was taken from my 2009 Masterful Lover Super Conference, where it was a huge hit with the attendees.

Using Handwriting Analysis can help you CHOOSE WISELY and it's a ton-of-fun. And when women find out you can analyze handwriting, don't be surprised if a line forms with each one saying "Do me next please!"

It's fun for them and you get to peer into their subconscious mind and learn deep dark secrets about their personality.

Here's what you'll discover in this bonus mp4 video:


BONUS #3: Personality Secrets In Handwriting (mp4 video)

"You won't have the same level of B.S. that the rest of humanity does, because you can screen them carefully"


When you use the tools of handwriting analysis, all of your outcomes will be improved. You will get much better outcomes in relationships and the sexual part of your relationship.

Bart Baggett is America's leading handwriting expert and has appeared on Good Morning America, Howard Stern, and is the President of Handwriting University.

You'll learn just how easy and scary accurate handwriting analysis really is, and how to use it to improve your relationships, dating, and your sex life.

Here's some of what you'll discover:

Follow along with an actual handwriting analysis of a woman's writing as Bart points out how to quickly spot both the desireable personality traits and the HELL traits you want to avoid like Swine Flu!




Even Hugh Hefner doesn't know these Secrets!

Sure... Hef has all those hot women around because he's got fame and money, but he's always the one that gets dumped by his wives and girlfriends. His first wife even admitted cheating on him while he was in the army. Ouch!

You can prevent this from ever happening to you. And you can save yourself the frustration of trying to make a relationship work or have great sex with a woman who just doesn't believe she deserves to be happy and fulfilled.

I'm offering you the tools and techniques to 'test' women most men will never learn. I know this for a fact from all the emails, letters, and Facebook messages I get from guys stuck in crappy relationships wanting to know what to do.


I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear...
I'm going to tell you what you NEED to hear!

My answer is always the same... DUMP HER!

Move on!

Have some self respect and go find a woman who will be thrilled to be with a man who wants to give her wild screaming orgasms and treat her well. A woman who will want to return all the pleasure you give her and more.

The question is... do you have the guts to do... whatever it takes... to get the kind of relationship you want? If so, my methods will get you there.

It's been 17 years in the making, but I've finally put all my secrets on how to screen for highly sexual, intelligent, and high self esteem women together an amazing system that makes almost certain you will have the best sex and most rewarding relationships humanly possible!

So, to get to the good stuff...

Here's What You Get:

Select Women Wisely Program

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Your Investment
Introduction to Selecting Women Wisely (mp4 video)
What Do YOU Want? (mp3 audio)
How To Select A Woman (mp3 audio)
Select Women Wisely Course Manual (126 pages)
Select Women Wisely - Audio Book 1 & 2 (2 mp3 audios)
BONUS #1 "How To Use Handwriting Analysis To Choose Your Lover Wisely" (mp4 video)
BONUS #2 "Personality Secrets In Handwriting" (mp4 video)
BONUS #3 "Quick Start Guide"
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I fully stand behind every program!


My 3-Point IRON CLAD Satisfaction Guarantee

1. No Fat, No Filler

Just pure content. I'll teach you the same cover methods I use with every woman I meet to screen them before I ever consider dating them. Every minute is valuable on this information packed program.

If you think I'm wasting your time, send it back for a full refund.


2. Full 60 day No-Hassle 100%
Money-Back Guarantee

Try it for a full 60 days. If you are not 100% satisfied for any reason, or even no reason, send it back to me for a FULL REFUND. No question asked and no hassles.

If you aren't happy, I don't want your money!


3. No Defects Allowed

If any of the media I send you is defective, just contact me and I'll have it replaced immediately at my expense.



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Give women incredible pleasure... but first Select Wisely!

P.S. - Remember, the introductory special ends on Wednesday June 10.

P.P.S. - According to MSN Money, every year 2.8 Million people in the USA go through the gut wrenching experience of getting a divorce... don't YOU be one of them!

P.P.P.S. - Here is a tiny sample of the amazing and real life success stories taken from my files:


"And of course, I selected wisely!
Why does that not surprise me given
the sex we've been having."


You know you offer that upfront "if this doesn't work" guarantee? Well if anyone tries to apply, send them straight to me. If they think there is anything wrong with your programs they are totally deluded.

I got onto your material while I was with the first girl I had sex with. I bought "The Secrets of Female Sexuality" and "Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" as soon as I was recommended your products by Adam Gilad.

I love your approach to female sexuality. It works like most guys wouldn't believe. Using your material made for great sex with my girlfriend, and she, a virgin too before we got together, had her first orgasm with me. (She loved the dirty talk too and for such a reserved girl absolutely loved being just "a little bit slutty" in the bedroom.)

Anyway, I wanted to tell you that the power of your teachings not just sexual techniques, but mindsets and attitudes toward women and their sexuality is immense. I broke up with my girlfriend for irrelevant reasons and soon started having sex with another woman.

The sex is amazing/mind-blowing/insert other superlative of your choice. First night nerves? NO WAY. She's been having multiple orgasms during intercourse since then and can't resist the sex we have. She cannot get enough and is happy to skip the dates I have planned entirely and get straight to it. Initially I held back on the dirty talk etc given that I didn't know how she'd respond, but she loves hearing it (unsurprisingly). It's time to ramp it up a level ;)

The last time we had sex, she was begging me to cum in her mouth so she could taste it. After a while teasing, I did, and she spent minutes telling me how much she loved the taste of my cum, loved feeling my hard dick inside her cunt, loved having my cock inside her, loved me fucking her hard from behind and more. She totally loves it. It's great being able to find her deep spot or lick her clit and bring her massive pleasure anytime I choose.

And of course, I selected wisely! My new girl is:

a) Intelligent
b) Attractive
c) A Daddy's Girl

Why does that not surprise me given the sex we've been having.

What can I say? Huge thanks for empowering me to bring pleasure into women's lives like this. There is nothing hotter than seeing the woman you're with unable to control herself because of the pleasure flowing through her body. I can't understand why anyone, man or woman, settles for anything other than great sex. It's great to know I can have a life of this to look forward to even though I'm still learning and growing as a man and a lover.

Massive respect for the work you do use this as a testimonial anytime hell, I'll write in even more detail if you want. You are the man when it comes to sexuality.

You are a true inspiration.


Alex - United Kingdom

"I wish I had seen your material when I was much younger!"

As a repeat customer, I can and do honestly offer this: I like your approach to relationships with women and attitude about being a man. I wish I had seen your material when I was much younger.

I am certain I would be in a much different and much better place with my life than I am now. Oh well...better late than never at all, not to mention being frustrated and disillusioned as I was before I started reading your material.

It's not just the woman or women that I am after, but rather the inner "knowing" that only comes from becoming what you have written about.

Thanks for your material!

Tim Gray - North Carolina

"David Shade distinguishes himself from the rest in that
he focuses such great detail on seldom discussed
and often misunderstood subjects!"

There is a lot of great advice available to men related to dating, relationships and sex, however I've found that much of it is very similar in content and seems to be recycled and resold by different "experts" claiming it as their own "big discovery."

David Shade distinguishes himself from the rest in that he focuses such great detail on seldom discussed and often misunderstood subjects.

His explanation... initially really challenged many of my misconceptions and limiting beliefs about them, but ultimately helped me to open myself up to a reality of powerful possibilities.

If you are serious about taking things to new levels, of learning some great ways to really amplify a woman's (and your own) total experience and of setting yourself apart from "all of the other guys" then I highly recommend David Shade's Manual and audios.

Daniel George - Denver CO

"I spent so many years being
frustrated out of my mind by girls!"

Thanks David,

For taking this subject out of the garb of mystery and teaching it to normal guys to help them on the road to fulfillment in their lives. I'm glad I've discovered your teaching because I spent so many years being frustrated out of my mind by girls!

All the best...

Scott M. - Cork Ireland

"Time after time I've used the methods you teach,
and they never fail to work!"

I've been studying all of your material and it has been eye opening, to say the least.

I was married for 7 years to a wonderful woman, but we literally had no sex life. When she died of cancer two years ago I made the decision to study everything I could find about women and sex in order to ensure that my future relationships would be sexually fulfilling for both parties.

Needless to say, I encountered a plethora of whimpy new age stuff that was saying I had to become a goddess worshipping pussy. Fuck that; I'm a tall, hard-working general contractor who doesn't take shit from anyone, and I'll be damned if I'm going to get on my knees and beg for a piece of ass.

Then I found your stuff...

God what a difference! This is the stuff women really want men to know. Time after time I've used the methods you teach, and they never fail to work. Man, I'm 49 years old! How do you think it feels to get calls from 20-somethings who want good sex and can't get it from their boyfriends/husbands? I can tell you, it feels awesome.

You say in your material that you don't teach pick-up. Well I've found that if someone masters your material they don't need to learn pick-up. I'm fully convinced that women know a masterful lover the minute he walks into a room, and they will pursue him relentlessly. It's all about exuding sexual confidence.

Brad in St. Louis, Missouri


"Biker drug pusher will raise your kids!"

Hey David,

Your divorce numbers are wrong!

* Average price of lost house = $400,000 in California
* Paying legal bills = $10,000
* Child support 500 + per kid per month

Not to mention you are now homeless , heart broken and a biker drug pusher is raising your kids when they are not with you!

So for all the men out there Stay the Hell away from strippers and the like!!!

Your friend,

Mike M. - California


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