Using the Welcomed Method to give VERY different Orgasms

Most women believe that direct stimulation of the naked tip of the clit is too sensitive. My girlfriend said the same thing.

When she masturbates, she goes in a circular motion. She also prefers that I touch her clit in the same manner. She does not like the naked tip of the clit to be touched, as it is “too much.” She prefers the hood to be rubbed over the clit, providing a “pushing” pressure onto the clit.

My friend lent me a video he ordered from the web site: Welcomed.com. The guy in the video certainly seems to know what he is doing. He showed how you must directly touch the naked tip of the clit at its one o’clock position (as looking AT the clit) with the tip of the index finger. In the video he demonstrated on a woman. He rubbed her for about 10 minutes. All the time she was orgasmic, but she never ‘came.’

One night I told my girlfriend about what I learned in the video and I showed her the web site. I told her that the guy said that “Any clitoris can be touched, when touched right.” I said to her “I want to try an experiment.” She said “OK! But I’m a little skeptical as in the past direct stimulation has been too powerful.”

Simple steps to a new kind of Orgasm

Just as in the video, I had her lie on her back. I sat to her left side and placed my left arm under her left leg with my hand under her butt with my thumb pressing on her perineum (between her vagina and her anus.)

The video said this makes her feel secure and anchors the clitoris. My girlfriend agreed with that.

Use lubrication

The video said to use a lot of lubrication because you must avoid micro scratches. I used Astro Glide, nothing else works nearly as well. (No, I am not an affiliate of them. I’m just trying to help you.)

Just as in the video, I slid the tip of my right index finger up onto her clitoris. I smeared the lubrication onto her clit and then began to rub the one o’clock position of the naked bulb of the clit.

The rubbing is to be done with the tip of the index finger pointing straight at the clit. The strokes are about one half inch and at a frequency of about 1 or 2 strokes a second. The strokes are to be radial, as if along the minute hand at five minutes past the hour.

She immediately responded favorably!

She said “I LIKE THIS experiment.” I tried the 11 o’clock position and asked her if that was any different. She said that the one o’clock position was better. I then tried the six o’clock position, and again she said that the one o’clock position was better. So I went back to that. I don’t know why the one o’clock position is better, and the guy in the video didn’t explain it.

Felt so good she didn’t want to Orgasm!

I continued. Before long, she said “This feels SO good that I don’t WANT to come!” I instructed her to continue to relax totally. She said she was right on the edge. She was in continuous total ecstasy.

This continued for about 30 minutes. Then she said that the pleasure was so intense that she couldn’t take it any more and she wanted to come. I told her the magic words, and she did.

We talked about it and she said

“The orgasm was different than any before. The sensation was different. It was like my clitoris was being pulled! It was like I had a penis and it was getting pulled. It is totally unlike the usual rubbing where there is pressure ONTO the clitoris. This was different.”

The next day she said “Every time I think about it, I get really horny. It’s like when you first learn how to masturbate, you want to keep doing it. I’ve been craving it all day, I’m walking around with a clitoris hard on!”

Since that day, this has become my #1 technique for giving women mind-blowing clitoral orgasms.  I go into depth on all the different ways I use it in my program on how to Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms, including orgasm on command and extended orgasms to mention a few.

Give it a try tonight with your woman.  Tell me how it works in the comments below or ask me any questions.  I do answer them.



  1. Timothy says:

    The reason the one or two o’clock position feels best is that there is simply the greatest number of nerve endings concentrated in this area. This is the same reason that touching certain places on the head of your penis feels better than others.

    @The Scientist

    I just use the thumb of the same hand to expose the glans. This seems easiest for the anatomy of my partner. If you have more questions about the specifics, check out the welcomed DO videos, or the goldfinger stuff from onetaste. I think you should be able to see the first DO video on veoh.com.

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  3. DavidH says:

    I know the video David saw that he got the Welcomed Method from is called “Deliberate Orgasm Expanding Female Orgasm” from the Welcomed Consensus website.

  4. Max van de Perre says:

    What’s the name of the video? Can’t seem to find it…. link?

  5. Financeguy40b says:

    if you get her turned on enough usually the hood will pull back enough to expose the clitoris I usually l start with oral then transition to the welcomed methods manual stimulation but if thats not happening no problem apply a decent amount of water based lubricant then you are going to want to anchor the hood back with your nondominant hand so for righties its the left and for lefties is the right and use your dominant hard to work on her clitoris at the one o’clock position. Enjoy

  6. The Scientist says:

    I have a question about this: My girl’s clitoral hood extends over the tip of her clitoris so that the naked clit is not visible.
    What would you do in this case?
    I was thinking of using the palm of my right hand to pull the hood back so that the naked clitoris is exposed… any thoughts?

  7. David Black says:

    Today I learned what it means to have a clitoris hard-on :-).

    Seriously though, great post David. This goes to show that sometimes women think they know about their own bodies, but are often not fully aware of many things.

  8. Matrix says:

    great tips. I just watched your video about how to give women more intense orgasms and it’s great.

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