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  1. kevin says:

    Mr.Spade I have a really important question for you so please answer it. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a good 4 months now,And I now she has had boyfriends with a larger penis then me.But this is my problem..I am very very much into going down on her, I mean I do it forever.And she does love this.But when it comes to sex I can only last for about 30 to 35 minutes.The real problem is she loves it when I go fast,and I can tell she is really liking it,and I know that if I weere to keep going fast for even ten minutes without having to stop for a minute that she would orgasm.I can only go fast for like 30 seconds then I stop for a minute and then go again.But she rolls her eyes when i do this..But yesterday I found a new position that let me go extremely fast and she couldnt stop telling me how much she loved me…..But once again I couldnt go for a long time….
    Basically my question is….How do I keep at a fast speed , for a long amount of time and not want to get off. I really really would like to go all night long with her.
    And please dont say condoms…Because me and her both hate using them becasue to us you cant feel anything.
    My last question is ,and please answer honestly I am about 6 1/2 to 7 inches ,and I want to no is that small.
    Thank you very much for your time and will look for your response.

  2. DavidShade says:

    Hi Thomas,

    You are welcome. And you have discovered what it means to be sexually confident and sensually powerful with women. This is the essence of Sexual Power.

  3. Thomas says:

    I looked at it the moment I got your newsletter.
    Those 7 lies are indeed my main “sticking points,” and I could really
    use that information, thank you!

    Now whenever I'm with women I kind of repeat “They are sexual beings” in
    my head and it does help to be more relaxed around them.

  4. Ernie says:

    I enjoyed the first disk and am looking forward to the following ones.
    Ernie

  5. DavidShade says:

    Hello Albert,

    I love your story! Thank you for sharing it. As you say, there is so much truth to this stuff.

    And because you didn't let her being shy and timid scare you from leading her sexually, she has been opened to powerful new sexual experiences. And you saw one of the common results that surprise men… “she wants sex more often” than you do.

    And there is nothing more awesome than being next to your woman as she is having an orgasm. It is a powerful shared experience for both of you and brings you closer together.

    Thank you again for sharing this!

  6. DavidShade says:

    Hi Werner,

    Thank you for your kind words. And it is very true that men don't have a source of information they can trust on female sexuality. It took me many years and many mistakes to figure this stuff out. Virtually all the sex books and videos all perpetuated the same crap, and women did NOT respond to it.

    My mission is to get the truth about female sexuality out there so both men and women can enjoy one of life's greatest pleasures together.

    I look forward to hearing from the famous Norwegian sex-therapist. Thank you for putting him in touch.

  7. DavidShade says:

    Hi Francesco

    Exactly! The true power comes from within you and the knowledge that women want to be highly sexual, but it's up to you as the man to lead them.

    It's a very different mindset than we get from the mainstream information sources.

  8. Francesco says:

    I finally realized that I don't need to have some kind of power OVER a woman, instead it's about BEING powerful and lead her to open up…thank you for helping me guys!

  9. Albert says:

    There's so much truth to this stuff.

    Once I made my girlfriend squirt she opened up so much sexually, and also emotionally. And when I got to know her, she was a kinda shy and timid person. We've had a deeper connection since then and her sex drive increased a lot. At some point she even told me that to her it feels like she wants sex more often than I do, wich was quite unexpected when I am comparing to the start of the relationship, where she didn't want sex very often. (I didn't have a clue back then ;) ). All in all I wouldn't have believed how far this knowledge can lead if someone would have told me. You just have to find out yourself.

    Oh, and by the way it is an incredibly awesome feeling if your woman is lying next to you and having an orgasm. It definately has a big influence on me, even if I am not orgasming at the same time as her. Some call it heart energy, but whatever it is it is truly impressive.

  10. Werner says:

    Hi Mr. Shade!

    Where do I begin… The way I see it, you've opened up a unique forum for men. A place where we reaaally can talk and learn about what matters – women. How to understand them. How to love and respect them. How to give them pleasure beyound what I personally ever could comprehend.

    Women has had their magazines (etc) for so many years, talking about subjects important to women. Where do men go for the same experience and info? Yes, we have sports magazines and such, but come on… We don't really learn about women just because som sex-therapist answers the age old question again and again – “Am my penis too short?”

    I sent an e-mail to a famous Norwegian sex-therapist. A gave him your name and your web-adress. He hadn't heard about you, but he wanted to check it out. He's in for a good treat!

    The snowball has began to roll. May it turn into a new reformation – for both men and women.

    Thank's a lot from the bottom of my heart for showing the way! And for providing a forum where men can be men. And thus be the best we can be for the woman in our lives!

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