The Deep Spot
The old saying “Where’s the G spot?” is often uttered because it just doesn’t do the job for many women who have never had a vaginal orgasm, and people wonder if they were on the right spot. One day I accidentally discovered a much better spot that is extremely effective in giving a woman her very first vaginal orgasm.
Back in 1993, I was dating a 22 year old woman who had never had an orgasm. I tried everything. I tried rubbing her clitoris, I tried oral sex, and I tried intercourse. But nothing was working.
So one night I just took my time finding what would feel good for her. With my middle finger I rubbed her “G spot” but received no response. Then I decided to slide my finger in as far as I could along the front wall of her vagina.
I curled the tip of my finger in that area while pushing towards her stomach and slightly pulling down. She immediately responded to this. After continuing this for a few minutes, the most wonderful thing happened. I watched the face of this beautiful woman while, for the first time in her life, she had an orgasm. That was sweet. She then breathlessly said “David, kiss me!” After a few nights of stimulating her Deep Spot she was able to orgasm consistently in any manner, including intercourse.
Later I was seeing a woman who had only had orgasms with the aid of continual direct clitoral stimulation. Basically, she was clitorally dependent. I used the deep spot on her, and within a few minutes she very vocally had her very first vaginal orgasm. After a few evenings of using the Deep Spot she was able to readily orgasm in intercourse.
Since I had to insert my finger as deep as I could, I began referring to it as the Deep Spot. According to the anatomy books, this area is called the anterior fornix of the vagina.
I have used the Deep Spot many times since then, as have thousands of my clients, and it consistently works to give a woman a powerful vaginal orgasm. Always use a liberal application of Astroglide on your fingers to prevent irritation.
@me,
Yes, it does work incredibly well.
> I recently read that you said to use 2 fingers spread
> about an inch apart when fingering the deep spot.
That is only an alternative for later. First get her to have vaginal orgasms with just your middle finger on the deep spot.
No need to lick the clitoris. In fact, don’t. That would only strengthen any clitoral dependency.
David
Hey David I’ve been doing this for a couple years now.and its worked INCREDIBLY well. I recently read that you said to use 2 fingers spread about an inch apart when fingering the deep spot. I also rub from as far back as I can and all the way to the front. The past 3 girls I have tried this on have all pointed it out after wards..e.g.”You were hitting a spot let me tell you” lol Also with this is there any need to lick the clitoris?? BTW THIS IS MONEY!!remember this technique your GF’s will thank you for it
I’ve done your Deep spot technique often with my girlfriend now. She still is not getting an orgasm. I’ve used the lines inn your “Give Women Wild Screaming orgasms – By David Shade” and I get more reactions but no orgasms. I’m not losing faith, I know this is supposed to work but i don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
The lubricant I use is “WET platinum premium body glide staysWETLONGER.com”
She gets orgasms when she gets on top of me and I have my penis inside her and she rubs her clit on my pelvic bone(where it is supposed to be). And when I do oral sex on her, sometimes, its hard for me. I’ve tried the Welcomed method and It’s failing me. She said though that at some point when I was doing it she had the feeling like before she was going to cum for a moment.I really don’t know how to rub the clit perfectly. What is to firmly what is to hard? how should I do it perfectly ?
I’ve bought a bundle from you now and is waiting for it to ship to Iceland. please answer me here though if you have the time.
Do i need more foreplay, some times I just command her to take all her cloths of and I start.
My girlfriend has not issues getting extremely wet. However, sounds like you still need to use lube to get the best results. Is that true? I’ve never used lube before and wondered what’s the best way to lube up or even introduce it?
It’s always a good idea to keep lube around and use it for techniques like the Deep Spot and Welcomed Method. While it’s great your girlfriend gets wet easily, it can happen that natural wetness will start to dry up and you don’t want her to get distracted while she’s building toward an orgasm.
Also, by making sure your finger is well lubed, you know the Deep Spot itself will be well lubed.
As for the best way to introduce it… just say “baby I’ve got something new for you. A new sensation that will feel really good.” Be the man, take the lead in the bedroom. As long as you are giving her great orgasms and incredible pleasure… you have nothing to worry about when it comes to introducing new things into your love making.
By the way, the lube I recommend is Astro Glide.
Hello Dave. The girl I am currently seeing, says she has more orgasms with me than any other person she has been with. However, she says they are different than any she has ever had. Ocassionally, she lets out a puddle of warm wetness all over me and the bed. We are thinking it might be a G-spot orgasm. I have noticed she likes her left nipple pulled kinda hard. The position that is used, is her sitting on top of me while I am on my back, and at times, I thrust up my pelvis and then go back to a normal laying position, this is the way she is having orgasms. She says when guys have done oral sex on her, it really doesnt do anything for her, so she really doesnt want me to try. She says why mess with perfection, and likes when she gets on top. When we first got together, supposedly, she had an orgasm everytime we had sex, and the first time she didnt orgasm, she said it was nice to see I wasnt a total sex god. thanks for all of your input, it is very helpful. PS., it is a challenge to give her an orgasm 100% of he time, and have not been completely successful. THANKS, Paul
Very well done and am happy to have the information, now that she has constant mutiple orgasms, what other mountains can be climbed?
Hey James Owen
Oral can be ok but can you lick a ice-cream for 25 minutes?
Try the WelCOMED Clitoral Orgasm
Lubricate a must
Cheers,
Hey david,
is it possible you could help me out with giving women oral sexaul pleasura also known as “licking her out” i really dont have a clue what to do with it.
Do that “come here motion”. Start with medium pressure to get her used to it. If she responds well, do it firmer. The better she responds, the firmer you apply.
So does the touch have to be firm like most of the G-spot videos teach us? And must you press the deep spot or do that “come here motion” like they do with G-spots?